At The Marriage Point, we specialize in ADHD Couples Therapy. We are acquainted with the destructive effects of unmanaged ADHD on marriages, and we are here to provide a way forward in healing. Our counselors are trained in evidence-based methods to treat ADHD and certified to work with individuals and couples who are struggling with the effects of ADHD on their relationship.

ADHD is described as a neurodevelopmental disorder characterized by one or more of the following symptoms: impulsiveness, inattentiveness, hyperactivity. Below are some examples of how ADHD shows up in adult relationships.

Examples of impulsivity in adult relationships include: frequent interruption, emotional explosiveness, having trouble waiting your turn, and making rash decisions without involving your partner.

Examples of inattentiveness in adult relationships include: getting distracted during conversations, slower processing speed and need for repetition, appearing aloof or in your own world, shutting down emotionally, forgetting important events or tasks, being frequently late.

Examples of hyperactivity in adult relationships: fidgeting while talking or sitting together, the need for constant stimulation via watching tv or scrolling on the phone, the need to plan or go on the next adventure, excessive talking during conversations.

If you suspect you or your spouse may have ADHD it is worth taking this self-report screener:

https://add.org/adhd-test/

and meeting with a counselor that specializes in ADHD couples’ therapy. This tool is a good indicator that you may have ADHD, however, only a trained clinician can accurately diagnose ADHD because other conditions need to be ruled out, and stressors, culture and lifestyle choices need to be considered for an accurate diagnosis.

Many couples live with the destructive and painful effects of ADHD on their marriage without knowing it and thus blaming one another for their painful interactions. With accurate diagnosis and management strategies, couples can learn to differentiate ADHD symptoms from the identity of their spouse and together work to protect their marriage from the corrosive symptoms of unmanaged ADHD.

We are honored to work with you no matter the challenge you are facing. We would love to connect with you via a Free 15-Minute Consultation to ensure we can address your concern and to learn more about how we can be helpful to you.